The Appeal of Cougar Dating Apps and Why Younger Men Love Cougars


Women who are cougars are by definition significantly older (at least 10 years) than the younger men they like to hookup, date, and have affairs with. The relationship whether a brief hookup or an ongoing affair is based on sex.

For the older woman it’s a chance to feel young again and desired by a hot young guy with a throbbing libido and a firm, toned body. For the younger man it’s an opportunity to enjoy sex to the fullest with a relaxed, sexually uninhibited, and experienced older woman. By the time a woman reaches mid-life and beyond, the possibilities for sexual fulfillment are endless as she is more comfortable with her body and adventurous in exploring her sexuality.

But regardless of how attracted younger men and older women are to each other, there remains the social stigma of the May-December coupling. Enter cougar dating apps, which provide the answer as to how younger men and older women can get together on a moment’s notice, an incentive for both parties. What follows are some reasons young men enjoy using cougar dating apps.

Cougar Dating Apps are Safe

The last thing a young man and an older woman want is to be judged by the stigma society places on younger-older hookups. In using a cougar app, young men can exercise the unbridled freedom to hookup with an older woman at the time and place of his choosing. He’s not exposed to the bemused looks of people in a social setting while out cruising older women. With the privacy of dating apps, no one is the wiser.

Cougar Dating Apps Offer More Opportunities

For men a cougar dating app offers the opportunity to play the field; to not be restricted to one woman. They can date a bevy of them and be selective in making a decision, which woman or women most appeal to them. In reading or viewing profiles, men can pretty well determine who they are likely to be compatible with and can remain interested in. They wouldn’t have this kind of advantage in real life since getting to know someone offline takes longer and requires more effort.

Cougar Dating Apps Offer Flexibility

When men use a cougar dating app they can schedule dates at the most convenient times for them, according to openings in their schedule. Not only this, but they can also choose a rendezvous spot convenient to meet at as well.

Flexibility also exists in the form of not as much pressure is put on men to meet up with their woman-of-the-moment. Men can elect to just chat, if say, for instance, they’ve had to work punishing hours one week to meet an important deadline.

Cougar Dating Apps Help You Get Back on the Horse

Sometimes the first date is a bust. But not to worry, younger men can easily resume the search for a more compatible cougar partner by getting back on the app. If at first, they don’t succeed they can try, try again. Because she’s out there!

More Reasons to Use Cougar Dating Apps

We’ve enumerated a few reasons why younger men choose cougar dating apps. And we’ve emphasized the physical side of these relationships. But there are other benefits as well which young men we’ve interviewed have shared with us.

According to one young man who began dating older women at age 20, it was exhilarating to him to be dating a woman who had a career, maintained her own apartment, and had money to spend. She was independent, feisty, self-reliant, and confident, something a younger woman couldn’t be.

A second young man employed in the tech industry said he liked the intellectual depth of an older woman and that they were low-maintenance, unlike younger women who can be dependent and needy.

A third young man says his cougar, 32 years his senior, looks a decade and a half younger than her 65 years would belie. She’s active, spirited, and has a positive outlook on life. You think to yourself who would not want to be around this vibrant life force?

As you can see there are many benefits to being with an older woman that go far beyond the merely physical. And cougar dating apps are the best place to meet and date cougars, who can not only enjoy sexually fulfilling relationships but come with less baggage and more to offer.

Author Bio: Patricia attended San Francisco State University and earned a degree in Technical and Professional Writing in 2008. She took a professional development course, B2B High-Performance Copy-writing from American Writers and Artists Inc., in which she learned among other things lead generation, white papers, and landing pages. She has experience in blogging and expert in writing different topics.

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